Monday, November 29, 2010

TIPS ON BECOMING A GOOD TEACHER


from my own teaching experince and from discussions and teaching many hundreds of teach thousands of teacher education students,there emerge common threads of understanding and skill that good techers weave into an effective personal style of teaching.Assesss your own knowladgea and values in terms of your thoghhts about the following :
Good teacher
• are good explaining things
• keep their cool
• have a sense of humor
• like people.especialy students in the age range in which they in teach
• are inherently fair-minded
• have"common sense"
• have a command of the content they teach
• set high expetations for their students and hold the students to those expectations
• are detail oriented
• are good managers of time
• can lead or follow,as the situations demands
• don't take things for granted
• have some "hard bark" on them
All of these define some of the characteristic of good teacher

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

arti dari articel influencing the behavior muslim youth and their parents

tujuan dari artikel ini adalah mengefaluasi faktor yang mempengaruhi prilaku anak2 dan bagaimana mengubah mrk tumbuh sbg model islam di praktekan di komunitas mrk,menjadi sumber kegembiraan dan kenyamanan kepada orang tua mrk,dan memelihara harmoni keluarga.prilaku anak di pengaruhi dengan banyak faktor yang meliputi keluarga mereka dan kerabat dekat yang lain,guru,rekan2 di skolah,komunitas,dan media.kurangnya disiplin dan prilaku beradap di skolah merupakan masalah utam,a di U.S,.itulah kejadian yg jg di lihat di rumah denagn keluarga yang rusak dan tdk adanya ayah di rumah ini menjadi maslah untuk ibu sendiri meningkatkan remaja.anak muslim meskipun berbeda dalam sistem nilai mereka masih terkena dan terpengaruh oleh apa yang mereka lihat.dan pelajaran islam telah menempatkan pada prilaku moral dan prilaku

Monday, November 22, 2010

influencing the behavior of muslim youth and their parents


the purpose of this article is to evaluate the factors influencing the behavior of children and how to be modify them so that they grow as model citizens practicing islam in their community
children are very susceptible to any and every influence.it has been said "they are like molten cement anything that falls on them makes a lasting impression".the influence of parent5s is high during early(0-8 years,up to 80%),but as the child discovers new friends and ideas.he or she grows independent from the influence of parents.
1.the Amrican scene
the American scene of the behavior of children and adults is changing.while it is diffcult to qualify the behavior at home,the same at school has been published.in 1980 the major problems were drug a buse,alcohol abuse pregnancy,sutcide,rape,robbery,assault,burglary,arson,bombing.we laeve our children at school in such an environment for 30-40 haurs per a week and than expect thwm to develop into angels.while the parents can do little to affect other influences some suggestion can be made in this regard.
Perrs
keep children in the company of good muslim children after school and during weekends to dilute the unayoidable influence of undesirable elements at school.
2.role of parents in inflenching the behavior of their children
children will become what we want them to be if we are what we want them to be.
love
love and respect on a mutual basis is our best weapon against all the negative influence on them
information
children are not born knowing everything right or wrong,they need clear guidelinse about good and bad behavior.
decisions
parents should help children make appropriate decisions and responsible for their decisions.
3.how parents can communicate with their children
one should avoid getting into this stage of strained communication.
• find a time to talk to our children
• when u argue do it patiently
• practice active listening to each other's view
• refrain fraom sarcasm
• encotrageeach other even in areas of shorcoming
4.influenching the behavior through daily hausehold chores
the purpose of giving them chores
5.how about inflants and pre-schoolers?
if nice manners are programed into them before they are introduced to the general population,it is doubful they would get the infection of misbehavior.
6.bill or right for muslim children
• muslim children have the right to lern and practice islam
• they have right to riceve love
• they have right to riceve educate
7.bill rights for muslim parents
• they have right to riceve love
• they have right to riceve educate
• parents hane right to know more about the children

Saturday, November 13, 2010

An important Islamic duty



the most important and lasting gift or inherence that we can give to our children is konowledge since as parents we are accuntable to their success and failure.the prophet SAW make it very cler that we are accountable to respective families/children
Alhadis clearly show how the prophet SAW commands us muslims to be responsibel to our respective families.
when we teach islam to our children,we raise them to be righteous and responsible muslims who will subsequently treat us with kindness and respect
Allah in many ayat of the quran has commanded us to please our parents after pleasing him.
"worship none but Allah and dutiful and treat with kindness your parents and kindred,and orphans and those in need;speak fair to the peopel ;and give zakat..."(2:83)
in line with the above Qur'anic injuctuons is the commonly quoted hadits,which show how the true muslim must be more dutiful to his parents than any other person in the world:
Abu hurairoh narrate that a came to Allah`s messenger SAW and said,'O Allah`s messenger !who is more entitled to be treated with the best companionship by me?"the prophet SAW said,"your mother."the main said,who next?"the prophet SAW said,"your mother."the man further said,who next?"the prophet SAW said,"your mother."the main asked (for the fourth time),who next?"the prophet SAW said,''your father."(Bukhori 8/2 and muslim 4/6180-6183)
Islam teaches us it is for our succes that we must obey Allah i by showing our utmost kindness and respect to our parents.we must also obey them for as long as they do not command us something that disobeys Allah I.we have to remember that if we please them,we please Allah I.this means,that through our parents we can attain Allah`s rewards
we must know that islam teaches us to show goodness to our parents by including them in our daily prayers that Allah I will forgive them and grant them mercy:
"o my rabb!make me one who performs prayers and (also)from my offspring,our rabb and accept my invocation.our rabb!forgine me and parents,and (all) the believrs on the day when the reckoning will be established."(14:40-41)
knowing the importance of islamic knowledge,it is imperative that we encourage to spend time acquiring it.
we must also guide our children to be prompt in ding good deeds,which will increase our faith and subsequntly enable us to gain allah pleasure and marcy

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Key factors for effective Islamic teaching and learning.



INTRODUCTION

Islamic society is founded on the principels of belief and righteous conduct.to be a muslim requires that one’s faith be reflected in one’s practice and daily moral conduct with other people.but many muslims today do not live in accord with the principles and values of their faith.what is amiss?

Islamic religious instruction,in the recent centuries,has benen taught primarily as a body of information,rather than as a body experiences.

The Islamic values education curriculum called for here focuses on personality and charater development of children

Ir we hope to succeed in our goal to raise our children islamically,muslim educators and parents must develop a better understanding of how children grow and learn

THE CHALLENGE

The pervasive influence of secular materialism and its value system seriously challenges religious-minded individuals and communities.

Without a proper understanding of the Islamic value system.this essay outlines a new vision of islamc education which is capable of producing muslim youth with level of understanding

This vision,in fact,is not really a “new vision”but rather a”renewed vasion” of Islamic education

THE VISION

The vision of Islamic education presented here makes a fundamental distinction between teching about “islam”and teaching a bout”being muslim

Several assumptions about the nature and scope pf Islamic education under –gird the vision of Islamic education presented here.

In developing our approach,we should not hesitate to benefit from recent educational research.these factors are briefly discussed below.

Effective Islamic teaching and learning must be meaningful.

Effective Islamic teaching and learning must be intergrated.

Most important of all, Effective Islamic teaching and learning must be value-based

Effective Islamic teaching and learning must also be challenging.

Finally. Effective Islamic teaching and learning must also be active.

These are the key factors for effective Islamic teaching and learning.

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Wednesday, November 3, 2010

SEMANGAT.....!!!!


semangat baru tuk aktifkan blog lagi,semoga bermanfaat.TODAY MUST BETTER THAN YESTERDAY,TOMRROW MUST BETTER THAN TO DAY..arruhul jadid fi jasadi umah.wish we all the best in everiything.ingat...!!!!!inaAllah maa naa.in tansuruallah yan surkum wa yusabit aqdamakum